Your story does not begin with you.

"We are All Born into a Common Soul known as a Social Field".
The family is a system of connections and interdependencies of its members. And when it falls out of balance, mechanisms called the 'orders of love' will push to resolve it.
These orders will restore the balance by choosing a member of the family's next generation who will unconsciously repeat unhappy stories . It rebalances itself in a negative way; through symptoms such as chronic diseases, unhappy relationships, lack of money and difficulties in achieving success...
So, it's really not very helpful to you.
According to Bert Hellinger, psychotherapist who developed this technique, every pain and struggle comes from some type of exclusion/separation.
This can be changed when you look at the roots of what's causing your symptoms and become conscious of the inclusion that needs to happen.